In today’s post I wanted to share with you some of the musings from someone whom I consider to be one of the best in the business, Thomas Plummer. Mr. Plummer is a veteran in the fitness industry as both a trainer and business consultant for over 30 years. In July of 2019, I finally had the privilege of seeing Mr. Plummer for the first time in 25 years at two sessions at the 2019 NSCA National Conference. I also got to speak with him personally at the hotel gift shop. As an astute follower of Mr. Plummer’s knowledge, I can tell you he shoots straight from the heart in telling the truth that most weak minded people would find insulting or offensive. I’ll let you decide for yourself as I share with you some of his clippings from recent posts/articles and see if you agree.
A Training Client’s Code Of Responsibility
- I will find a coach whom I trust and stick to the plan. I will not try and outthink my trained professional.
- I will accept who I am now and not try to be the person I was physically 20 years ago.
- I understand that no matter how many times a week I go to the gym, there is no magic workout that will overcome a lousy lifestyle. If I want big change, I have to make big change, in not only how I approach fitness, but how I live too.
- I will always remember that there will be days when I just don’t feel like it and even the act of just showing up and getting it done is far superior to doing nothing at all.
- Good coaches lead but aren’t magicians. I still have to do the work if I want the change. My fitness is my responsibility.
- I understand that the ultimate goal of any fitness plan is the quality of life. Looking good is nice, but living healthy and feeling great is everything in life and fitness.
- I realize that about 99% of all the garbage on FB and YouTube may not be true and I will trust my coach instead of the magic exercise or supplement of the week.
- I will not lie to my coach about food, or wine, or what I ate Sunday watching the game. And no matter what I say, I realize my body can’t lie and what i ate is what I wore in today so I might as well as write it all down.
- My goal is to get to the point where I understand that fitness is motion, and motion is life, and the best day of my life is when I just go out for a long walk for the simple pleasure of moving that day.
- I will understand that my coach is a professional, the same as everyone else who supports me in life, such as my doctor, accountant or chiropractor, and that I understand he or she needs to get paid decent money for putting up with my nonsense every week.
Things to Ask and Ponder Yourself
- Why don’t you fight back?
- When did you quit on yourself physically?
- What day did you decide it is no longer worth taking care of your body?
- If you are in your 30s and not happy with your body now, but not doing anything about it, what kind of health and body will you have ten years from now?
- Isn’t being there to watch your kids grow up important enough to get you to move?
- Is hanging on the back of the shopping cart because you are too lazy to stand up and walk the life you want?
- Are bad food choices worth dying early?
- Do you really want to spend your years watching others live full and active lives while you sit and do nothing but make excuses?
- Do you use the time excuse when you spend hours a day staring at screens?
- Do you use the money excuse when you could at least walk and hour a day and change your life?
- Do you blame not knowing when you could hire a coach for only an hour a month if you don’t have much money to start you in motion?
- If not now, then when?
- When will you realize your life and how you live it is your choice?
Age is Not an Excuse
- You choose your age.
- You define your own age by the choices you make each day as to how you will live.
- You can be in your 50s and choose to live as 35.
- You can chase fitness and healthy food and have a body that screams 35.
- You can jump rope, chase the grandkids, run on the beach, and love the one you love.
- Or you can ignore your health, tell yourself 50 is getting older and you are slowing down, watch television for four hours a day, wear frumpy old lady clothes, wear the same hairstyle you did in high school and be 50 doing everything you can do to be 65.
- You can be the 40-year-old guy with the too-much-time-at-a-desk forward head lean thing going on with the muscle-free rounded shoulders, old dude pleated pants to hide the belly (it doesn’t) and ignore that your choice of lifestyle is killing you, or you can fight back, join a gym, get a coach and turn back the clock to a mentality and body that says 30, not 40 looking a bad 60.
- You can move, eat better, dress better, and realize age is just a condition of your mind and you choose to be the youngest version of yourself possible or you choose to live 20 years past your time.
The Choice is Yours
- You choose to sit, others choose to move.
- Most of the diseases of aging are self-inflicted and we know they are coming
- You refuse to exercise, you are a self-inflicted statistic in the making…and you do know it is coming your way.
- You just didn’t wake up some morning, stand in front of a mirror naked and realized, “how the hell did this happen to me? I look like a bad clay project done by a bunch of four-year-old drunks.”
- You became that nasty artwork in the mirror by choice, by one lazy day at a time, by one donut as a snack, by too much, too much of everything bad for too long.
- But today, if you choose, you can turn back the clock.
Best Wishes to Everyone
- May you always keep your shoulders one inch wider than your hips.
- May you always have a butt that only needs one chair. One butt, one seat; that is a basic rule of life.
- May you always remember that if you are wearing it, then you ate it and if it is on the hips it came through the lips.
- May you always remember that lying to your coach, and yourself, in your food journal helps no one. Entering one glass of wine, but drinking one bottle, does make it difficult to help you lose weight, although you might be fun to hang out with.
- May you always have a belt buckle that points east and west, not mostly to the south.
- May you always remember that hardcore purists die alone in the dark without friends. Being 90% good equals a life of health and friends.
- May you always remember that the best day you will ever have in life is today. Doesn’t matter who you use to be. Doesn’t matter who you will be. Does matter who you are today.
- May you always remember that your kids, family and friends are worth a few hours a day without your phone in your hand.
- May you learn whomever wrote, “He who dies with the most toys wins” was wrong. He should have said, “He who dies with most experiences wins.” Life is about what you do and how you live, not about what you own.
- May you always remember that not trying at all is worse than actual failure. Not trying because you don’t know where to begin is a lie you tell yourself because you are lazy. Do something, even if it is wrong, and keep moving forward. You can fix a mistake moving forward, you can’t ever fix doing nothing.
- Always remember that even one small act of kindness changes someone else’s life, and maybe your own soul. Petty people who are continually angry are the people the world can do without. If you are one of those, grow up in 2020. Your friends and family will be grateful.
- Always remember that no matter how bad your day is, somewhere in the world are people who don’t have fresh water, enough food or the simple safety we assume to be part of life. Even when life is tough, you should still be grateful for your life.
Learn the Power of Saying NO
- Say no to drainers of life who expect you to carry their load.
- Say no to anyone who wants your time and energy but gives nothing back.
- Say no to taking on so many projects your own life and business hurts.
- Say no to your television and get a life today.
- Tell your phone you are breaking up and today I can’t scroll with you.
- Say no to toxic people who do everything they can to keep you from succeeding.
- World, today the answer is no to you, but for me, I am all about yes.
- My life is short. I will only spend time with the ones I love or the ones who inspire.
Til next time, train smart, eat well, and be better.